Learn skills of Finns! (for example the four seasons)
Having the first four skills of this blog always along solves many problems, for example if applied to the largest groups of a country and to it's relationships to other countries, and gives lots of room to free life.
As far as you all the time in everything follow these, you will probably deserve a high social position in your own country. Learning these does not need travel to Finland.
Finnish version http://opisuomalaisuus.blogspot.fi
I made an internet search for "fine districts with local charm and high achievements", wishing that my blogs or books could offer such strenghts to those interested in creating such places or in developing just these kinds of strenghts maybe a lot.
The news said today is 30 years from Finns having voted to join the European Union. So it seems that many have had stomach ache as if many wanted to make love with the map of Finland which is of gge form of a woman or somewhat in that direction. Finns do not think that way of the country's relationship with other countries. Instead Finns think of Finland as consisting of climate zones and of bogh climatically and otherwise different places. And likewise the Fknnish view to other countries' life is what is the climate there, how do they wander outdoors, is there nature, how to survive and enjoy tge climate, info about such.
Of close relations I would say that people who kniw each other usually do not want to pay overly much attention, but to new interesting or neeeded things they tend to pay attention, like whether to take a cliser look at a brochure. People who want to come overly close, either lìke to company of the othwr or it offers them some good side tgat they lack or they are somehow forced to such and tend to attack or they sneak near to attack, or they undersrand nothing about such persobs and like ufos woukd need lots of more experience of life of different kinds of yhings like lawn, tall grasses, houses, animals, humans, places, etc, instead of meeting many times the same persln - so different ufos met is better than replacing them with one person or ufo. Anyway, those wanting to clne too clise often do not suit deciding about that person's life. Instead people mostly decide better themselves, if they try to behave wisely enough in the world, with common sense and wisdom of life too.
Even the male president seems to be kn stomach ache like some impression of the map.
That made me think of my own texts from the point of view of some, maybe quite young, people wanting such thing to their lives, like ice cream from a shop or like I as a child wanted an accordeon and later a dog. The Christmas gnome skills texts at least are like that, see LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com .
Maybe some such things are also what is spught from coming to Finland. It feels to, but I do not quite know all such things.
Staying healthy and recovering well is another, see my blog CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com to which there nowadays is also the link www.EasyHealing.info , and in the blog especially the text "As if of a naturally healthy family" summer 2024.
But is there also something else that we Finns ought to arrange? What?
Many of my books as free versions at MiracleLikeNature.BlogSpot.com , and my books and ebooks for sale at www.amazon.com/author/khtervola , maybe for this purpise the www.amazon.com page would be clearer. I have two www.blogger.com profiles (click my name or picture) with lists of my blogs, an older one with about a hundred blogs and a new one from this year 2024.
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One fetching a tiger toy maybe wants tiger like life. So you maybe want in some sense somewhat Finnish type of life. But what is your climate preference? In Finland the climate is one of the major attractions and for others one of the main reasons to move away. Do your likings in what comes to social ways, vaöyes, skill levels, wisdom of lufe, ways of living, individuality, professions etc emphasized etc lead toward certain countries, tyoes of towns, professions, climates, or the like? That is impirtant to take knto account in where to go to begin with, where to move to, etc. Especially important it is to notice are people you know moving away from a certain area or toward it.
Here kn the capital district, there are three big towns: Helsinki, Espoo and Vantaa. Vantaa is the least wise of these, doing things with a school like style but concentrating ln reaching for points, and so often neglecting wise valyes, especially at the level of one's whole civiluced öicture of the world instead of one's work only and what is paid for. So things often go well via school like thpughts' routes, and some may get some big benefit lije for example a new woolen shirt for one who did well in school studies. On the other hand there suddenly comes crimes of one's pal not having cared such thibgs well, like an animal rushing suddenly away and there being some shouting like between teen siblings sometimes. But that is jyst my imoression when looking at things from Helsinki ans Espoo.
Espoo is cobsidered the most wise by some, but such gets ruined by some guessing Vantaa arranging things better, and some being jyst for food and home life or food jydt enhineering. Anyway Espoo seeks to be relaxing after Helsinki and holustically civiliced with free time too after Vantaa.
Helsinki seems in practice the most viviluced in an university oriented way, but somehow the quality of lufe is not good enough, since some suppose that those liking nature ought to find such peace mostly elsewhere, similarly of practical life and own home.
In the capital district there are also Swedish speaking people, for example the smaller town? Kauniainen. Typical to them is that they do not care the whole well even though they claim to do so. It is maybe that they do not identify themselves with Finland or objective tjinking with wise civiluced values but instead identify themselves with Sweden and Swedish culture, which sees individuals as small not affecting the whole except by repeating things preferted by the culture, and so they in Finland claim to cultivate viviliced values without actually following them in one's picture of the world in ways that would be fair toward the values, snills and lufe possibilities of others, especially in the ling run. So the effect is quite disastrous, maybe like of people who specialuze into conquering jobs and positions as if those were separate buildings to ocvupy instead of somehow parts of the lufe around and parts of the wider world too.
29th of July 2024 Build yourself a paradise, a paradise like way of life, paradise theory and wisdom of life, lots of free advices, rewarding books to read, see www.ParatiisiVoittaa.fi which ought to lead to MiracleLikeNature.BlogSpot.com
In the Finnish climate vety fat are usually not happy, for example ball like fat men often look unsatisfied with life. Of the fat in Finland somewhat steady looks, maybe like a rounded square like style may be ok satisfied with life if they like good food and want such life. More round than tgat is often counteracting some big burdens in lufe, either one's own illness or other musery or helpibg others or hard work or some task tl be endured through. Those often look like eaten bakery, and think that food softens their life, making them endure better their burdens. But ordinarily Finns are not so fat, but not thin eithef, more like slim with a slightly curved form from fat, and niwhere in the body exhausted from not having enough fat. This corresöonds on men to having some stomach fat but more like supporting normal active everyday life than being any obstacle to moving.
The news today claimed that in connection with the major music happening Coldplay, Helsinki changed it's name to Coldsinki. There was a video with a tram and road signs with the text "Coldsinki". The piece of new mentioned the major use of services, the major wishes of travellers and of living in Finland being an important determining factor in what to call the place. Having lived my youth in Helsinki and all my lufe, except travel, in Finland, I would say holistic rationality with common sense, healthy kibd of wisdom of lufe, ibdividuality, some fracturelessness, civiluced values and the lufe possibilities created by civiliced wisdom of life, and good quality in these, plus the Finnish climate and nature, the four seasons with daily recreation outdoors a psrt of the way of lufe at least in the southern half of Finland, and summer cottages, active life, many possibilities for an individual, music too, yet not at the center of attention of the world but more like just living obe's own life, in harmony with the world.
Finnish speaking Finnish culture uses holistic objective pictyre of the world all the times, backed up be common sense and enough, really lot of, healthy kind of wisdom of life, so that arrangements work in practice and are good for the world, fair too.
The looks of some foreign cultural groups differ very much from this, so even though each shoukd be judged each time separately by one's deeds, words, values, quality, wisdom of lufe, situation, consequences, pissible dangers, etc. It anyway is good to notice some common sources of liw capacity and low quality or neglecting values.
If someone is catching cold, or otherwise somewhat ill, but tries to continue daily life like normal active life of youbg adults, it is typical that one's capacity is poorer. Like in stomach pain, if one tries to do something, one is half away from action, concentrated to healing oneself or ought to be concentrated to healing but is jyst ill. And so only some part of one's normal capavity is left for the things at hand. And so obe often looks lije as if making long lines along the both sides of one's perspective or sphere of good enough attention. Somehow these lines are in practice usually very commanding toward others. The lines try to say: "notice that my capacity, my attentiln isn't niw any wider than this space before me which I am using in tvis actiln". But somehow such lines destroy the lives of younger or mire civiliced or of wiser peopke around. But I do not kniw why.
If one is even more ill and feeling weak, even raising from ved and going to the kutchen table to make a sandwich may appear like an artificual arrangement. Often such hapoens to people who do not cultivate wisdom of lufe, beautiful valyes and good quality. Some try to pretend that such us an ok level of well working life, of civiliced understanding, and somehow such persons are granted rights to affect others - via lies, via memirised kniwledge, via supposed civiliced wisdom which at least does not go right in practice without corrections needed.
And sometimes such peopke of liw capacity, maybe hanging on others as social company and suppirt like one in a vomitting stomach disease hangs on the occasional others helping. And if such a situatiln stays, tge person is called socially oriented. And so the oerson tries to figure out work like yseful things to do, and ends up using artificial square thinkibg meant for comouters or for pkayibg cards or for objecrs lije boxes, books, etc, and I guess originally from remarks of others about fibding some other peopke to help, she/he uses such to peopke and ends up in a people estimating professiln, deciding about peopke's luves all wrong, terribly criminally wrong.
Or then such oeople are fed very well, like with bajery, and like a round/square spot they clmmand the environment jyst destructively, while someone else points at them and says, look, niw that person can, lets let him/her decide about things. And so she/he is jyst like a bomb destroying the society around, the lives of the wise locals here in the north.
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If for example the mom in the family is with a smallened capacity, that ought not command others. Instead she gets momentarily marked "ill" or "tired" or "preoccupied with some problems at work" or whatever it is. And so she just ought to make herself a sandwich, cook tea, go to the toilet, rest a little, do something reviving like lustening to radio, etc ultil whe has recovered. And in so doing she ought to use only quite luttle space and stay mostly out of tge circles of the family, out of the way especially. So each kid or other family mrmber lives one's own lufe according to one's own skill level, following what is ok behaviour and good values in the society and in the world, but maybe especially healthy wisdom of life. And so should it usually also be, instead of some commanding others or neglecting giving them their fair space to live in.
"... If an animal for example wants to grow a better coat, one ought to find friendly (very convinced and skilled, like a husky for example) forefigures teaching a warm coat, and give up former views of a certain kind not-warm-enough coat being just of a compulsory kind, termed fine. And look at the forefigure's attitudes toward coming autumn, especially in the coat area and near by it, like posture, blood circulation, goals, their feeling, how widely they affect, in which ways, what are the thoughts connected to this, feelings and picture of the world, is there any actual deed directed toward the coat, are there classifications for things in the environment, to reactions to them, what is such picture of the world and of the seasons, what is the identity like, what does it say of coat, what should the hairs be like, the outer hairs how water resistent endurable etc, the inner coat how warm, in which ways and how to achieve that. Then just transform your life toward that ideal.
This is a much wished for tjing to learn from the northern climates, but this attempt that seems successful, is surprisingly different in ways of communicating and values and skills referred to, than what I and I guess many other northerners too, would have expected, see https://parantamisesta7.blogspot.com/2024/07/waking-to-life.html and at a link from there.
Travel to your dream destinations with Dwenda travels,Dwenda travels is a way of looking so that one gets a feeling of utter beauty of nature and learns great new talents etc,
8th of July 2024 Of the name Dwenda, I am good at theoretical thinking, so I suggested a name connected with wise ways of thinking, D, which appear to fit together with the nature, in questions of northmost America the trees there, and a kind of wider fascinating spgere of lufe and of undwrstanding and skills with a tale like charm of the northern forests, snow, nature and the seasons there, like what is the charm of some books there and my view of how to learn new skills, talents and a way of lufe suited to an area that one would like to live in and whose seasons, weathers, type of nature imoressions and their atmospgwre sensstions, etc one is fascinated by. And my imoression about traditional ways of life in the quite north, and of the ways of living of wildlife in the north. But these wete jyst imordssions of a certain style, certain ways of choosing what is comfortable for people, animsls groups, etc motivated in a certain way, what is a fruotful groubd to build upon together with civiluced wisdom and especially civiluced valyes. And the ibflyencies from the arctic Santa Claus Kand in the North-West Russia at Novaja Zemlja made it possible to choose jyst such that it would be like a nice present or nice presents for the ibdkviduals but with good wuse effects in the world and posdible in practice, for e ample of a right size class in each thing. Or that was the aim.
9th of July 2024 If the name of a wide area Dwenda, helps learning fascinating clinate's culture which one likes and values, and learn talents, wisdom and skills from the nature, etc, and does so all over the world, is it then in a sense a name suited to the whole planet Earth, so would the planet Earth have in some sense naturally the name Dwenda, since thinking a liked fascinating area there havibg that name (Dwenda) or being a part of a wider area with that name (Dwenda) would be a good way to live there, to learn to the place's habits, skills, ways of living, etc. So in a sense such a planet would be called Dwenda, even if it isn't officially called tgat. "
If one thinks of what is basic Finnish speaking Finnish culture and ways, now that there seem to be lots of foreigners in Finland and not all of them of first generation, and when through interest in other climates and cultures many Finns grown up in Finland according to the Finnish cultural inheritage like to follow some other culture and it's values as their personal choice, personal comfortable way of living.
Finns do not have a long civiliced history, but the climate, lication and traditional ways emphadize the need for individuality, common sense, good quality rationality and healthy wisdom of life, with freedom, honesty and responsibility emphsized.
But anyway, what is Finnish civiliced ways is basic school lije picture of the world with basic rationality and common sense, plus civiliced values i.e. following according to common sense, what is good for the world. So in practice honesty is needed to get this to make sense.
" Of enthusiasm, tradition, individuality, wisdom of life guiding speedy action well, etc
The video of Cher? about tge motger and girls dancing in the kitchen brings to my mind my youth, summer time fracturelessness, the enthusiasm of having nice hobbies, the liked valuable variatilns of tradition, the individual wisdom of lufe of each guiding their lives and showing their possible hobbies, future professions etc and being of a beneficial effect to the luving environment and to tge wude world to give fair room to such, and how the healthy ways of luving and folliwing civiliced values make life feel good.
From the chapter about Christmas preparations in my book series Skills of Christmas gnomes :
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T2. For most tyrning toward Christmas begins in November when the weathers and darkness make one wish for something softening and comforting and for warm clothes, and when one for the first time hears Christmas songs played in the radio or in shops.
T3. I guess that making things nice for Christmas is largely that thibgs and places would be clean and dry, but on a leisurely way, like one who does not always do such chores finds the right nice tune and drowns into making home and clothes nice.
T4. Often things go nicer if one does not do them like a professional, but instead like a quite beginner who in a moment of inspiration manages to make professional quality.
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"An extremely handsome man"
I thought I had stopped writing, but I somehow felt like explaining the social sides of Lea Laven's song "Ei oo, ei tuu" which I felt boys reacted to very badly when I was a child. And something about handsome men too.
1. Lied and acted good will isn't the same as wisdom of life which is good for the society too.
2. If a girl or a woman has different dream job, values, liked places to live in, liked cultures etc than one's parents and the town one lives in, those who are at the right dire tion look handsome but are often of a wrong type for oneself, typically changing from the charming areas of lufe toward the professilns etc that lne wants to distance oneself from. It would help a lot if one could choose a district to live in which fascinates oneself and a nice job.
3. "An extremely handsome man" in a woman's gesture language is usually the woman's own view of one's manly skills, but those are like a sprinter's, a spark of short time interest, instead if the work like exhausted typical to many men. It would be good to choose a spouce with whom one gets well along, a social relation with whom it is good to live, things in life work out well, one is happy in a natural way, both enjoy such life, it is good for skills, wisdom of life, it offers one space to live in, a good living environment, so lne naturally likes it and tends to smile, and that is why it is said that one ought tp choose a beautigul or handsome one, it means one for whom it feels good to live with ypu. It often means someone with similar likings abd wisdom of life but often of a dufferent age or otherwise with different strenghts, instead of getting stuck to forced rigid ways.
4. Finding "an extremely handsome man" connects often with a phenomenom of which Asian philosophy has the saying "When the student is ready, a teacher appears" of which I wrote some piece of advice in my long text about the Skills of Christmas gnomes learntalents.blogspot.com . I mean when a person has own skills and wisdom of life and longs for some element to one's life, some area of life added, which sparks and lifts lne high especially in the beginning, maybe lifts high also the effect of the new human relatilnships there, but it works only based on one's own wisdom of life, and not if others force one to lean on the others in questilns of wisdom of life etc, instead of relying on one's own wusdom of life.
Obs. With whom lne wants to live closely together or copy from is typically a personal matter, but in any case one must leave others room to live in, also for childhood family members as they grow up. Room to live in is a question concerning life in the society. It isn't place for childhood competition or social matters.
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A Christmas song "I am not seeking for power or glory" plus some words about power
I added my old video to the middle of this quotation. It is a song from the point of view of thinking large scale profound questions of wisdom of life, and it so helps to create the Christmas time. It is just a beautiful song, not an opinion in a conversation. And it does not agree to give power etc to those who break against such beautiful values.
" D30. 3rd of September 2020 There is a much liked old Finnish Christmas song called En etsi valtaa loistoa, "I am not seeking for power or glory" that tells of the value of things themselves and of wisdom of life instead of grasping only tool like things.
"I am not seeking for power or glory
I am not seeking for power or glory, I am not searching gold either. I beg for heaven's light and peace upon the Earth. It brings Christmas which brings happiness and lifts spirit up to god. Not power nor glory but instead peace upon the earth.
Allow me a peaceful hut and children's Christmas tree. The light of god's words in which my soul gets lighter. Bring to homes, also to small ones now Christmas celebration sweet. Light of god's word and some nobleness of mind.
To the poor and to the rich too comes Christmas lovely. To the darkness of the world bring heaven's light. I want you, I wait for you you master of earth and heaven. To the poor and to the rich bring your sweet Christmas!" (my translation)"
" W7. Often one gets along and gets solid position when one respects the values of the area of life at hand and tries to learn it's skills in a good quality way and cultivate them well in ways that respect that area's values and motivation and what livibg in a society needs for the society to be good to live in, now and in the future.
W8. What people get position from and how they get treated, is from what they do from momentvto moment, which are the values followed in that, which level of skills in each thing done or thought of, and what is the way of being social, and is it fair, honest, responsible, etc.
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Learning skills which give a higher position
W11. "If you want a betterposition, the rule "Live and let others live!" F60. in the Christmas gnome text, followed all the time in everything, with commln sense and lots of wisdom of life, tends to give so lots of freedom as long as one follows the rule with wisdom. It also tends to give a much higher position to decide about things since things usually run smoothly with such wisdom.
If you need extra skills to gain position to influence things, try E11. Easy quick school for animals, M8. Like a hero of old times, and N97. Emperor's power. "
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N97. My first name Kaisa has the association "keisari"= emperor. What i have learned from it, is that an emperor's power isn't for a certain person or position but instead for a certain type of deeds, so in practice for many different kinds of persons and for them per deed and not continually. The person should be responsible, wise and skilled enough, work fairly for the good of the country and of the world.
I copy the advices in learning skills and talents here too.
F60. Oh, how is gnome like life possible socially, how is it possible to get along and to have room for one's own life, for one's own likings? I guess that the answer is the traditional Finnish rule "Live and let others live!". It is essential, so I copy it here:
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Saturday, October 13, 2012
World's best problem solving method (Important to learn all over the world)
The ruleis something like: One is allowed to be selfish in ways positive for happy life but not to disturb the lives of others - except fairly to prevent them from disturbing others unfairly.
I do not know how all-European this traditional Finnish speaking Finnish (saying/)behaviour rule referred by the non-literal words "Live and let others Live!" but it is surely worth copying! It gives a maximal amount of freedom of everyone, completely according to their own likings, at the same time as it gives perfect moral for purely selfish individuals concerned mainly about their own life but who have a holistic rational view of the world and of the society's workings. The rule "Live and let other Live!" means that you can yourself live as freely as you allow others to live in the society - that means the others who follow the rule "Live and let others Live!". If you to some extend disturb people who follow the saying, you own room to affect things and to live in is shrunk on that respect, preventing the harm and making you think that you might want more room and so be motivated to living in harmony. That means that evil is not allowed to affect lives (of anybody else than the evil one oneself) but nice moral things are allowed to affect fully and supported in order to get better life for all! But one does not need to accept some influence because someone else says it is nice, instead there is the need to be moral and the freedom tofollow one's own likings. It is a good rule. Maybe You have it already! Please learn to use it for happy life and a prosperous society, if it is not so widely known...
Observe that this rule is roughly "Room for happy life!" and is akin to justice and caring the world to such that it is good to live in happily. It is not saying that one should not kill anybody. It means that if fair play and the happiness in the society or in the wide world so demands, you are supposed to prevent evil ones (and utterly stupid ones) from harming others unfairly, also if it means war, killing or the like, but of course one must see the situation as a whole, the good and bad sides of each tactic and choose with wisdom.
There is this same rule without any exception in all relationships, including mother-child-relationships, dating (Try for example incompetitors in love, their kids and other responsibilities), friendship, hate, not caring attitude etc. Largely other rules are not needed, except lots of common sense, healthy spirit and a good understanding and at least some good will toward all.
An important application of this rule are the relationships between countries and between groups which may compete fiercely. It is also a good rule to build the society upon.
It often happens with this rule that the problems disappear as if they had vanished to the thin air. Typically some woman (a wise one) or some nice man says "Go and enjoy yourself. Do not be bothered by them. You do not need to disturb them if you go to some other place or to some other people." and so the person in conflict does so and finds so room for him/her to live his/her own life without conflict with the others.
The goal is something like "We live our lives and let them live theirs." But the other side of the rule is how to get it to apply, how to force it upon people who do not follow it. And that is if they break against justice disturbing the lives of others unfairly, their own room to live in is shrunk similarly and they are prevented from harming others unfairly. But where they live ok, they can fairly keep their space to live in. Typically in this the rest of the society caring about that people would follow the rule, is important. Also some wisdom of life makes this work better than too little understanding about quality of life, social relationships and the workings of the society.
If this rule isn't familiar to you and you don't know how to take it into use or even if you want to use it or not, please try it out in your mind: figure out what it is like in each situation and how following it would affect things. It is a very useful rule, somaybe you like it too, it is quite easy when you have first learned it in each type of situation.
If you in some occasion don't feel like yur feelings coming along in letting others have so much room and preferably happiness too, you have propably not applied the rule enough to yourself: so be more selfcentered, think about what your own life need in a situation like this and see if you can arrange freedom and happiness for both yourself and for others, for yourself you need to take care of it and for others just leave room for them and they themselves with their friends arrange for themselves without feeling it being a burden of some kind.
In care professions, like for example medicine, it is important to follow good enough understanding, good enough moral and be honest about what is a lie, a habit or an unsure supposion. But with wider consequencies taken fally into account this rule applies there too: the patients and others cared for should be allowed to decide fully about their need for care and about the decisions in their care: that is their life, their own influence to the world and those in care professions should not mess with it, giving excuses for crimes. It is especially important to let those live freely who are moral and so carry the burden of keeping the world in a good state, for example some parts of the society.
This rule works well for example in the negotiations between different groups. You do not need always say aloud that things are according to this rule. It is enough if your suggestions are such that when other groups check them, they find that those are ok for them, so they can easily agree to support them, and likewise for your own groups too. But on the long run it is good for people to learn the rule, so that their own suggestions are all right for others too.
Following this rule in decisions, courses taken, judgements etc makes police and justice system and government also easy to agree about, but you do not need to refer to this rule, but more likely explain things in terms of law, needs, objective thoughts, common sense, experience, fair play, carrying responsibility, freedom, etc and then when the other person checks whether it is ok for him/her, it is according to this rule and so easy to agree about, and kind of makes it easier to think of these kinds of things if one has good enough understanding, wisdom wisdom of life, healthy spirit, good will and responsibility about the coming generations etc.
Horse running in an arch, a model of free life according to feelings, a horse knit picture
Animals and somehumans too learn this rule easily by comparing people (and animals) to the trees in a park: each one has one's branches sovereign, lives freely according to one's emotions so, but does not mess with the branches of others, isn't allowed to do so. But one can offer available things that people like, like for example a song in the radio, in a radio station which specializes to that type of music so that people can choose according to their likings whether they listent o it or not.
Animals which associate closely with humans, especially pets, ofr example dogs, sometimes ask if there could be a school for animals too. I have written advices about learning common sense like objective thinking and about fitting into the society, so here is my version of a kind of school for animals:
1) Thinking: use a landscape like view that observes structures. Good practise for this is looking at familiar scenes and landscapes with trees and some life in them. Trees and nature make observation ability better and join the sense of sight topgether with the sense of atmospheres, which is also good for thinking. http://quickerlearning.blogspot.com
For teaching this to a dog that is interested in learning it, go outdoors to some peaceful enough place where there are trees but not overly amess. Do not strand face to face by your pet but instead side by sode so that it looks at the same landscape as you, and so you can look at it so that it sees it the same way and then you can walk to a bush, tree, street's side lawn etc like observed firstm, and that's it.
2) Fitting into the society: The advice "Live and let others live!" is good for this. Think of each person and each group sovereign as the trunk and branches of a tree in a park. It does not mess with the branches of other trees and those too leave it alone, to freely and happily live it's own life. Good will toward others is a good advice here. https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2012/10/live-and-let-others-live.html
3) Wisdom of life and healthy ways of living you can partly learn from how tree branmches curve topward light and what is their atmosphere, the mood it seems to refer to and the kind of life, and partly from sport and healthy kind of life on all areas of life.
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There are also some other things that have often come to my mind when thinking of a school for animals, especially for pets and birds, maybe for mice too.
4) About teaching an animal to read there is a video about reading Finnish language at https://villakoirabanjo.blogspot.com/2020/01/opeta-elaimesi-lukemaan-nain.html , but for it one must first understand spoken language, which often goes by associating with humans and paying attention to the situations and tones of voice, and later by remembering also the atmospheres of the spoken language. Finnish language is written like it is pronouced, but there are some differencies between literature's language and the words of spoken language.
5) The square looks of houses etc are a consequence of it being so easy to place two or more parts next to each other tightly and so that one can choose from nay options, what to place so. So one can build shelter from weathers and from dangers and use materials economically. Such houses also offer fiar chances for different types i´of individuals and a possibility for privacy. The square looks of houses are not good for intelligence and quality of life. For them it is good to look at trees outside the window. If life indoors feels tough, do not attach yourself to build things but instead only to the nature outside the window and to outdoors at large.
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M8. 1st of June 2022 I wonder could one be like a hero of old times but in these modern ages if one read kn part 2. the text About Kalevala B38., and in the beginning of this blog about how to learn talents and skills, and maybe the Easy quick school for animals E11., and if one would look at healthy natural ages old ways of living from the point of view of basic theoretical picture of the world like the sciences.
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About kalevala
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"I bought Kalevala as a book to myself and read some of the beginning. In the competition singing of Väinämöinen and Joukahainen I was surprised to notice that Joukahainen did not lack skills so much, but instead Väinämöinen sang him to be things like the glow of the nature, to the marks of great skill in the nature. "Hat from the head of the man he sang to be an erect front edge of a cloud; he sang mittens from his hands to be leaves on the cover of pond's water, from that misty blue to be clouds in the sky, from his belt a fascination of a new wife to be stars scattered in the sky." So I was left to ponder, if I as a girl thought when reading kalevala that that is what can happen with great skill: one loses position, propably via losing communication connection when one no longer speaks the language of men with more soldier like style. That I would take care to not to fall myself into that pitfall. But at the same time I thought that I could nearly reach that high, to that style in achievements. Now I think that it is like having met a bird: with it's song it makes forests beautifult o wander in, green, there is much soldier like wisdom in it's voice. But so, how did I think I could reach so high skill and quality of life, like the reddish glow of the grassas in a forest etc. One would have a healthy way fo living or a healthy touch of one's own which would cure the way of life healthy again, to ages old. In every thing one would see the parts of healthy way of life which are as an idea in it, and so the deed when sees alike as others' deeds would be healthy on one's own and on others too, and so one could continue with healthy psirit from that, each one, whole society, and partly the rest of the world lear from it. ( World is of love (a mechanical model) http://healthilymoral.blogspot.fi/2011/08/world-is-of-love.html ) ( http://finnishskills.blogspot.fi/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html ) One would have skills of one's own, one would have found one's own roads in life, it would be good to be an individual, personality, like oneself and strong, enjoying being an individual. And so human relationships would be in a way clishee like and in a way with a healthy spirit: one would have the strenght to have an opinion, do meaningful things, carried by the values of the society, things with healthy psirit carried by the actions and values of the society which have healthy spirit which would have strenght and content to life. And one could get strenght, skills and integrite with opinions from being soldier like: to defend something, to invest in healthy courses, copying fro little singin birds and fromother strong wild animal persons (http://wildharmony.blogspot.fi/ ). One would be healthily spoirty, doing things at the practical level, with a good understanding achieved via adfmiring the nature and feeling via beautiful values, caring for the world, approaching life with feelings, motivated to the sphere of life and missions of the traditional way of life, with feelings and with a good understanding, reaching parts of the forefigures in nature of their skill level every now and then. (In Finnish http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.fi/2016/07/suurista-tunteista.html )
1. To a Dream Job (Like this you find your dream job and learn talents!)
To a Dream Job Written by Kaisa Hannele Tervola, Finland Many of us have different strenghts than what your dream job would need. And the more we admire some professions, the higher demands we often set to ourselves to be allowed something so high. But our own strenghts reflect usually the dreams of our parents, to which we have already gotten introduced so much that we are thoroughly bored, and not what we feel that our own lives have been most lacking, what we most admire and which we would most enjoy our time, which we would most carefully take to our heart and take care of if it were our work. We cannot change to be copies of our parents, so better for us to travel to the unknown toward our own dreams! Choosing a profession for oneself starts with finding the right way of living: what is your biggest dream, what would perfect life be like, what is the one and only right choise that is often so far that at most in sleeping dreams and tales we dream of it? Set your goals there, take the first steps to that direction with your full heart and with all your wisdom of life, and life is at once much more worth living. If you try with a full heart, that is a different things from somehow, with half a mind only, quickly on the way to something else, just somehow sloppily, just because of the looks and not the content, done. First the idea is to get experience of trhe area of life that you love. You do not need to be of professional level to start with, instead the main thing is to to via your own most loved roads get to know the things you love with your full heart, even if they were distant dreams. Via travelling your own roads you can use your capacity fully and learn as much as you ever can. When setting your goals according to your own wishes,according to those distant dreams, your deeds do not lack spirit: you are at once talented in something that you love. First you have a fascinating hobby, then you start to achieve things that fascinate you in it, set new goals that you love and work for them enthusiastically. This way you do not get flat and bored from memorizing books, instead you have your own style and music like fascinatuion in what you do, real power and own insight and well trainbed skills as your support in your favourite job, which is like your deepest dreams and not set by the environment you happen to be in, your nonexistent starting leve of skills and your initial lack of talents. So there is nothing stopping you from starting in your favourite job, first maybe as a practising student and across time as a real professional in it! On this road there helps the piice of advice about learning skills in things that you love: How to learn all at the same time - drawing and painting"
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2. How to learn all at the same time - drawing and painting (Like this you learn all kinds of skills!)
Skills are often ways of looking at things: when one cancentrates in the right way to right things and notices enough the right structures/regularities (like for example colours with their tones and with what they get compared with), then skill is born from it already without really practising it - maybe in five minutes, maybe in 20, maybe from two day's relaxed hobby. But the difficulty is to find that right way of looking, being drown enough in it and to know what that skill really demands.
I have been making advices to others about skills that I can well. With the same principles I ought to be able to make advices for myself about skills that I want to learn. Just for fun I tried this theoretical view to the skill of painting: "What if one could learn it all at the same time?!" In principle one could... Except that some time would be needed for learning to conceive motorics of hands, learning how different colours of paints behave, etc things demanding experimenting. But the basic principle is always the same:
Drown in the experience so strongly that you notice clearly the different tones of the things that you want to learn, for example instead of noticing just red and green, you drown into enjoying the colours and their tones with their impressions so sensitively and experiencing them with your whoke being that you notice even small differencies in tones as clearly as those of colours earlier. The strenght of the experience brings to you vocabulary for that: this is a cold atmosphere, that is a warm social one, what the different things are like, ever better and better noticing such things. Like this you learn to take into account those things. Then just do so and your skill is ok in what comes to that side of things.
All the taime when you do so, when you concentrate to a new side of things, all the time keep your old skills along, for you to get at the same time both your old skills and the new ones. That does not mean keeping to a stuck view or stuck ways, istead it means relaxation in a lively non flat way, reaching a new inspiration, not from dreams but from the fascination of life at the level of experience, which is born of relaxation and of new beginnings, of letting go of old. You can keep your ability to notice the things that your skill consists of, even if you would lose it's formal side totally. Each time you learn something new and the spirit of your skill gets more profound, at the same time as your old skills stay fully.
So what would this mean for me as a beginner without painting skills? One should learn to no5tice forms and colours with their tones, atmospheres, states of mind, harmony, balance, rhythms and their encounters, breaks, what gets compared to what, common spirit and it's complex variations,... And to draw and paint them on paper. So one should drown in the world of colours, enjoy forms and structures, give room for feelings and feel how they affect the way one observes things, get more sensitive to observe how atmosphere connects to what one looks at and how, what associations it brings to one's mind, what role things have in the world and how it brings the spirit to things. One should also learn how to move these to paper: I notice a form/structure, I lift it to be a subject of my concentration and my hand draws a line that reflects the structure in my mind. Superfluous lines are important to drop away in this: not writing, not a language of geometrical forms, instead just a feeling and drownig into it draw a line. Likewise the other sides: a clear image in one's mind and drowning into it drawn/painted shape.
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I noticed that I learned painting well and quickly when in addition to this piece of advice I bladdred through a good quality study book of aquarel painting and was left watching some especially fascinating picture in it, trying toconceive how it was so fine, how it had been painted and why it had so good spirit, how the whole so successfull. Then I left the book open at that place for a couple of days or a few and looked at the fascination of the picture every time I was interested ins uch. Then I painted just something that fascinated me (does not need to be the same subject) partly based on my old skills and learning according tyo the previous advice in skill learning new fascinating things and partly based on what I learned by copying from the picture. Like this after painting a few pictures I knew also new skills quite well. As far as I know also this piece of advice suits also learning other skills. A good quality study book offers model of a skilled forefigure, who can with her/his style, way of doing and by the things picked to the book teach professionals kills of that area of life. Like this one learns the practices of the profession, it's skills, it's view to the world and even values and it's typical spirit of doing."
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24th of December 2023 If there appear to be kind of maybe quite horisontal, somehow square lines in the air, which maybe affect atmosphere and what one can do and how llng social influencies last, those may be a way of mice or the like hide their presence. So you ought to tell the possibly present mice etc near by, what is the reason why some social contact's view is erraneous and ought not be followed, like telling it to a child or the like. You could also teach the Easy quick school for animsls E11. to them. It is in the above collection too. It ought to help a lot.
In the Finnish climate of four seasons, it is clear that one cannot live the summer in the same way as winter, since the weathers are so different. One needs to have a liking for tge variatiln of the weathers and seasons to enjoy such life. Typicamly people have a liking of some country's, climate's and type of district's wisdom of life in it's ways of living, and so thry tune toward such, and may forget to or do not want to tune themselves to their present living place's weather skills, cultute, wisdom of life etc. So they would most adapt to and like living in the district whose wisdom of life they admire. So they ought to move there right away. And likewise of family members: each to the climate, country and type of environment that they enjoy are tuned to, which culture's wisdom they value. That way they themselves would be much wiser, natural and happy.
4th of January 2024 Bobby Vee : "I love you more than I can say"
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My own home as an adult has sometimes had a honey like atmosphere. I value animals and nature, admire bees, and I tend to think that it is good to leave things at home in a way that is good for life, but sincere enough so as to know where one needs to learn better ways of living. I value wisdom of life a lot and consider good ways of doing important. I think strongly that wishing well in the world and being fair in one's life are important values to follow in practice, always in everything.
" Women's Day 8th of March in the spring winter isn't actually a celebration. Instead it is a wish to end the winter cold by women's wisdom if they happen to such have with such an effect too. If a child wants tl be a girl, it is for most or all imporant that one could get a child of one's own and carry it in one's stomach. So the child is asked, do you think that you would be able to care for the child in your stomach so well that it does not die but is healthy and grows like a child ought to, and care for the child when it has born but is still quite youbg, say a few years, and care for your own body and needs so well that you have the strenght and wisdom etc for such and things run well for you, your family and friends, for the social group you live in and also the society and world good for life in the future. And so most women and girls learn to care for such yhings somewhat, have some wisdom of lufe anf common sense and think that such are needed. And so if the world is of spirit, Women's Day in ghe quite early spring can help to end the winter cold and bring spring weathers.
I guess such is some general wisdom of how is good to live, suited for all, like healthy ways of living and civiliced wisdom, and taking the environment into account, and wishing well in the world - but even mentioning this causes that many try to convince others of the opposite goals as similarly wise advice in life. But it is like a passer-by of a young person or animal saying/thinking "Gees, good ways of doing and taking the environment into account civilicedly, that's life!". Emotional wisdom of life tells whether one feels well or not, so learning wisdom of life about feelings helps in this a lot, but these are complex subjects including wisdom of life, understanding of good ways of doing, of personal differencies, learning, individuality, society level wisdom and one's picture of the world, etc.
It may be that the characteristics (also physical) of women and men, are results of all the time being about to do chores (men) to make the living environment and the wide world good to live in, or caring for wisdom of life (women) in one's own life, in tge living environment and in the society & the world. Both ought to care for both kinds of goals and have lots of experience of them in practical life, for this to work out in practice.
Does this explain what women and men are like, and why they have the rights and tasks they have? One ought to remember that there is lots of variation between individuals!
Women's view of home is that it is a kind of car depod?, a carage like space for repair of cars, maintenancy, short pauses and for keeping some needed artifacts, a little bit like the working place of a car repairs man but not so full time work and for so many clients. In a home there are likewise needed nutritients etc, like bensin for a car, and oil etc. The spaces are made good for use and the aim is to be in full intellect, in a good mood and otherwuse good for the actions of the day and of the future too, in good healthy ways. So like a garage maybe needs less dust, people often need that things would be good to look at and good to use and good for life, and the variations between people and things done etc easy and natural to take into account, which typically means that there shoukd be a flower pot or other complex natural decoration object near by, for example on a near by window, pleasant to look at.
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" Social tangles get solved via fair play as a goal
If I think of my own life, I have had some strong strenghts, especially objective thinking, healthy ways of living & wisdom of life and civiliced values followed always according to my best ability in each case. But on the other hand I have had weaknesses too, so that I mostly haven't had my wishes respected in social life. Sometimes when it is a work like thing and I have had enough space for my good quality views, it is ok if others with their skills and civiliced values take care of those sides of things done for which their skills, values and quality are good enough.
Similarly in social life I need room to follow my own wisdom of life, while there mostly is no need for me to command others, since I am not somehow socially such. All following the rule "Live and let others live!" is enough. But what most problems come from is people being unfair on purpose, walking over the rights of others since they think life is some social competition instead of a common attempt to live a good life, each one of one's own kind. So someone being stupid or lacking skills usually isn't the problem, if such does not affect too widely. Since there is communication possibility to fix such problems, and usually most understand that all are different, and it is just nice to do things in one's own ways while one's pal chooses some other option, so that one does not need to compete.
" In the news some time ago there was something like a dispute can Israel's Eurovisiln song have the words "October rain". I thought of it as a description of the weathers of Israel being tough and needing extra learning even from those with good weather skills there, like in the middle of autumn in a climate of four seasons. Or that the weathers in Israel feel like slapping with a wet mitten in the face.
But can it be that many who are interested in Christmas gnome like life would prefer something like the October weathers here being a major current in life, so not so detailed eyesight oriented life in the cold, but instead somewhat October like also in the winter time, with maybe some frost and snow as a skill sometimes but not as a full season. So maybe they would like Germany, France, Hungary and maybe Kazakhstan. And some whose emphazis on bush like way of behaving causes pain and aggression in Finland, are maybe referring to bushes in a so warm climate that it never reaches the coolness of the October rain here in southern Finland. So I guess that October rain is one way to recognize better which climates one likes and belongs to.
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12th of May 2024 But if one does not have weather skills well suited to the climate in Israel, as far as I know, the climate there is deadly, people die in a couple of days and some sooner. The Dead Sea is in Israel, and even though Jerusalem is very famous, it is well known that only some especially interested in Israel can travel there, and also those say that it propably was not a so good idea, since the climate, vegetation etc is so very different there, also culture and religion, ways of livkng, and the times of Jesus really were such a lobg time ago in history, and even a long tine ago ghose were a long time ago. Things advertised as a good time to travel, like a leaf hut celebratiln were without leaves, not much possibilitues for life there even for animals and plants.
Climates requiring lots of climate skills are often good for people interested in developing and maintaining high skills, since all people there just have to have some interest in skills to stay alive, and for normal life even a very high skill level is needed. And so in connection with high skills places with a difficult climate are often mentioned, since one could learn high skills from some people there, from what they have written or otherwise produced, but at the same time one is warned about the climate, so best to just read some piece of text and live where one likes ghe climate, culture, ways of living, values and skill level. If one is not interested kn so high skills, some milder climate might suit that skill level better, but it maybe advertices itself with other choices of words and with other values emphasized.
When a child is raised in a climate that very much or absolutely demands some things in weather skills taken fully into account all the time, that typically is arranged via a picture of the world, way of livkng and doing, ways of thinking, basic reactions, values etc, which appear as a kind of culture and area specific style of walking etc outdoors, kind of use of space, body warmth, cooling, moisture, saltiness etc regulation both in the body, near it, in the landscape and in the human contacts snd things done, kind of seriousness typical to that culture, managing to invest more in there important matters. So if you suffer from a lack of weather skills, such culture's thinking perspective might ease life.
Obs. I am from southern Finland, not suited to so scarce nature as tundra etc.
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At least in Finland, woolen clothes, blankets, warm winter blankets, winter clothes, etc are used only against cold. Those are not used to get overly warm or hot. In ordinary room temperature the air typically has some bacterial from living, but not ovarly much. If there is somewhere a feel of dirt or bacteria, that cloth or what ever is washed and dried before it can be used. If it cannot be washed it is thrown away to the outdoors trash. So in Finland some fabric being thick or woolen or kept a lot in hand does not mean it being with bacteria or dirty. But since there naturally is quite little bacteria in this climate, very strong detergents are not used. Instead wash several times with a mild detergent or throw the cloth or dirty blanket away and buy a new one. Simikarly of animals' fur, coats and people's skin.
Clearly dirty clothes etc are not as warm as clean ones. The effect is like that of somewhat moist. So dirty that those are with bacteria cannot be used, but instead must be washed or thrown away. Similarly ghe skin ought to be clean, warm and dry. A wish for more bacteria is typical to people who like South Europe's climate more, so they ought to move to warmer countries.
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28th of October 2024 If one would compare Germany's ways of living the weathers with ways of living October rain, Finland would maybe be sonewhat like living -1C weathers, Finnish Lappland maybe like living -4C weathers with a slight layer of snow upon the small plants, both sight, agility, safety preparations, wisdom of life and beauty oriented, but Canada in North American would be like living -20C weathers, mainly concentrated on staying warm.
Learned from changing weathers demanding individual judgement to stay alive, like the melting of the ice cover of a lake in the spring time.
" First, follow civiliced values with good quality. Then have some independency, the right to refuse, so as to have some personal fracturelessness and healthy kibd of wisdom in lufe choices. Pay attention to weather like situatiobs: does the thing seem good, wished for in tge world, and for you right now, and for others, kibd of taking the ibfo of feelibgs into accoubt well, since often drawbacks are difficult to put to words, since those are often in another perspective or side or between perspectives, but kind of felt atmospheric fracturelessness in how one is in a landscape may help one notice such and take them wusely into account. "
(I am not so sure if the singer is good influence, since hebrings to my mind a robot with a hard-cover insect.) Jukka Poika - Silkkii
" Please observe that Finnish ways of thinking and a quite big part of Finnish wisdom of life are well suited for using inside the civiliced picture of the world, with the help of objective thinking and civiliced values, and so such may be in use all over the world, in very different kinds of places, in even in space and among animals. The Finnish daytime temperatures may vary about 60 degrees of Celcius during the year, so also some Finnish climate advices may be in used in very varied kinds of places. So if some advice in Finland or from Finland appears not-so-Finnish in atmosphere of it's effect, it may be that it is in use in for example South-East Asia, and so you have to take a much more local approach to get it work well. But there is also lots of sabotage, malicious deeds and persons disguised as trustworthy traditional Finnish ones.
21.4.2024 In the blog LearnTalents2.BlogSpot.com there are at least two weather advices suited to all climates, as far as I know even to Arab countries, but must be local versions of them. In the news there was some time ago about the words of the Eurovisiln song of Israel being disbuted. The lyrics contained the words "October rain" which as far as I understand refers to how tough the weathers of Israel are even to those locals who have good weather skills of living them, kind of tough like needing to take the weather into account very much and maybe tough for the skin or otherwise feeling tough the dryness and saltiness of the air plus hotness, maybe somewhat like continually slapping one in the face by wet mittens, and still in the phace of learning such weather skills even if one tries hard. But my impression was that my weather advices helped a lot.
In both Finnish and English tap water is called running water. It clearly refers to it coming quickly and handily. But some wonder did ghey sometimes in the countryside carry water runningly, and to what was such needed. In my experience of summer cottage life when I was young, some family member cooking sometimes needs water quickly, since the drinking water has been used and there is some food cooking needing extra water. So someone brings water runningly in a half-full ( or less full ) bucket from the well or from the lake shore. Lake water can be used at least for washing.
Likewise if there is some bigger task like heating water in sauna for washing or cleaning some floor by pouring/throwing buckets of water upon it like a sweaty sauna's floor and sauna's benches or maybe in the old times cattle needing drinking water, or if there are many people they beed lots of water too, so some bring it quickly by running a short distance with almost half-full buckets of water, then giving it to the next carriers and one oneself relieved from the burden running joyfully to fetch the next one.
If there are children or visitors fetching the water and it takes time, it may happen that they do not know water from well how much and water from lake how many, so if they instead do the task quickly by running each some part of the way, it is still quite clear what water is what and how much of each type is needed. And so all get some excercise and it is quite fun and soon done.
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If there is some medical problem or misfortune causing an excess need of water, my impression is that one ought to tidy the situation to symbolically good and good in atmosphere, for example store the excess water outside by the wall and maybe eat a bisquit or the like to feel more like in a Sunday mood, things taken well care of, try to be with wisdom and wisdom of life. My advices for healing nowadays at EasyHealing.info which ought to lead to my blog CuringGuesses.BlogSpot.com , (suomeksi parantamisesta.blogspot.com eli nykyisin myös osoitteessa www.parantaminen.info ), and my advices for happier life in my very very long text (advices for skills) about the skills for a Christmas gnome/elf like life year around (taking the time of the year into account) and world wide, see LearnTalents.BlogSpot.com/2018/09 . About giving birth in a quick painless natural way there are some advices at https://learntalents.blogspot.com/2024/01/advices-about-giving-birth.html and the Finnish original you can find via some links from there.
" I wonder did some imagine white snow meaning no blood there, and that there never is any wounds or murders in the north
In tge news there was a picture of a movie, a wounded or murdered man on snow, excapt that there was quite bright red around. Oh, maybe there was really much blood upon blood on very thin snow, or on ice, so maybe it could have been blood. But ordinarily if one gets a wound outdoors when there is snow, the drops vanish in the powdery new snow, since the drops are heavy and warm and the snow light and easily melted. So ordinarily blood isn't seen on snow. If there is more blood or the snow kind of rigid surface, the blood drops often kind of spread to the snow around, and many of them vanish downwards, so the effect of like that of some dust. But if there is ice, then maybe also smal amounts of bloid lise their coloyr, but blood upon icy bloid ought to be bright red, but such is rarely seen, and there often also come new layers of snow upon iced substancies, so such does not stay long like footprints outside paths may be seen for months. So if someone thought things very peaceful here in the north because of no such colours on snow, that isn't so peaceful here but blood isn't usually bright red on snow.
I do not know how much crime there is. It seems to be one factor to take into account in daily life. But in the spring when temperatures are well above zero, it seems that all who spent the winter here, even if it was indoors, take the winter seriously. In the autumn it wasn't so at all, so it seems thst all those died. So the weathers and living wisely the seasons are one factor determining who can stay alive here. That is why the country has the name association "finish", at the furthest edge of livable regiln in the world. More extreme are like in space ship. I do not understand why mentioning such makes foreigners think they ought to kill people. Do they think this area culturally homogeneous, kind of nonchanging. The climate does not change, the geopolitical and military locatiln as an edge natiln of a big nation does not change, and the amount of civiliced thinking benefical in this climate zone does not change. Yet the people may change.
